Parents of multiple children- How often do you get to enjoy one-on-one time with your kids?

Parents of multiple children- How often do you get to enjoy one-on-one time with your kids?
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I try and make this happen at least 3 times a week. Going right now to the auto bone yard with just my oldest to pick some parts for his car and will jam with my youngest when I get back. I take each out to the restaurant of their choice once a month…those are the best conversations too!
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