Physical appearance is a factor, if we’re talking about choosing partners. There are some physical traits that attract me but because physical appearance is not really all that important, I’ve been with lots of different people and have begun to find attractive whatever it is that they exhibit. So, I don’t think people actually have set preferences, they may and do develop new attractions. As for my own physical appearance, I wish I didn’t have so many issues but having grown up in this society, it is no wonder.