Your argument is illogical – I don’t see the logic in expanding ‘some love for all women’ to ‘great love for a particular woman’. It’s a little like saying “you can’t love chocolate ice cream without having a love for all other flavors”. It just doesn’t add up. The fact that a woman bore you – that’s a physical, technical function. Having a baby does not automatically impute love, affection, or respect. Maybe it should, and it often does, but it isn’t a universal result of the physical act of giving birth. Basically, for some reason you have a blindly pollyannaish view of women, but you don’t make a good case for it at all.