Yes there have been many times when I felt my life was stagnating. You reach a crossroads and wonder what you are doing and how you got there. I think the biggest life changer for me was after my marriage broke up. I hit an all time low and life seemed to stand still. I was going through the motions, bringing up the children as best I could but I was very unhappy and felt that I wanted to run away from it all. I think my children saved me because I knew I had to hold it all together for them and when I came out the other side I decided to make some big life changes. I got my sister to look after the children and got a part time job. I loved the adult company and earning my own money and no longer pined after what was in the past. I think there comes a time for everyone when they reach a crossroads in their life and they know they need to make changes if they are to grow and move on. Once you make that decision things become clearer in your mind but it's up to you to make that leap of faith. You will instinctively know if it is the right thing to do.