Having a househelp can be a lifesaver in a case where both parents are super busy. Obviously, it has its perks but it has its disadvantages too Most people with househelp are too busy chasing money that they have no time for their kids.The child may lack proper parental care due to this In some instances,the house help may lead to marriage break up .Some house help may be so attractive that the wife won't be able to resist him In Africa, it is the job of the wife to cook for the family but in a case where the house help does all the work, then the wife lose meaning. That can affect the marriage The family may not have proper family time .Their is an outsider.The family may feel unsafe to share their secrets,goals aspirations Kidnapping is another thing that could happen.The house help may abscond with the baby he is taking care of Some may abuse the child sexually or physically when the parents are not at home.