No, I’d never do that. When this happens, I’m grateful for the thought and effort, and I find something nice to say. What’s the percentage in a cruel response to a kind gesture? Recently, someone gave me a batch of chocolate-chip cookies. I don’t eat chocolate, but there was no need to mention this. I gave profuse thanks and passed the cookies along to Paul. It turns out that they were burned, hard as bricks, and nasty; I never said anything.