Why So Scared?

Why So Scared?
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Have you tried meditation? Meditation will help to calm you down and relieve some of the perpetual stress you seem to be dealing with. It won’t cure an issue that needs medical attention, but it sounds as though a lot of your fear is self-imposed. You obviously know what you are afraid of, but do you know why?
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