I’m sorry to hear someone pulled this on you, you don’t deserve to be treated that way. I’ve been fooled several times by spam folks, and I even had my credit card number stolen years ago and lost $400 to a scammer in France. I lost almost $800 to a scam just recently. Fortunately, my credit card company honored my dispute both times and never charged me a dime either time. People will try and fuck you (and not in the good way) given the chance. As you get older (and this is no dig at your youthfulness) you will learn to see the signals of those who are out to do you harm. Listen to your gut feelings, they are rarely wrong.