My therapists told me to make a list of the pros and cons of each option and then step back and look at it from that vantage point. That sounds so logical and mathematical to simply choose the route with the most pros and least cons. However, in my case, the last decision I made was just purely the only thing that felt right in my heart, in spite of the cons. It maybe a girl thing. I never regret though, relying on my instincts and what my heart is really telling me to do. For me, the answers come from within, no matter how illogical it seems on the outside. I believe in dreamers and risk takers and adventurers. Perhaps I am too romantic.