answer:I am a woman, but I have also loved women so I will take a bash at this question! When I was in my twenties, I think, I watched that movie “Fatal Attraction”. I thought Anne Archer the wife in the movie was irresistable. It was not her outward appearance but a deep sensuality she had, she was edible, for want of a better word. I think sensuality is everything and it is often quite rare today. When everyone is all fit, hard, and puffed up. But overall I think a woman who is comfortable in her own skin, has her own life, her own style, knows who she is, is independent and fit. Is irresistible. But of course it is all relevant to each person. I don’t think one singular woman could be irresistible to all men.