Should you love someone who is not financially stable?

Should you love someone who is not financially stable?
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Is that person stuck in that job forever? Can you support yourself (and potentially a family)? Is the person in the lower paying job because it’s a non-profit that benefits the community? My point is, using this as the sole point of judgement is probably unwise, especially if the person is relatively young.
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