Do the responses to your questions and/or your answers ever upset you?

Do the responses to your questions and/or your answers ever upset you?
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answer:Somebody made a reference to me yesterday and I cried all day long. But, other than that, I try and get something out of everything that’s said. It doesn’t hurt to see something from a different view point.
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