Am I leading this girl on? (Details inside)

Am I leading this girl on? (Details inside)
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You’re not leading her on if she knows you’re leaving. You need to make sure, 100%, absolutely sure she knows though. Tell her. Don’t assume she knows anything. On your date or next time you talk, tell her about your travel plans, being sure to mention how long you’ll be gone.
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