WORLDY DILEMA!!! I have to choose to date either a girl who likes me and is really cute or a girl ive known for most my life and is somewhat goodlooking

WORLDY DILEMA!!! I have to choose to date either a girl who likes me and is really cute or a girl ive known for most my life and is somewhat goodlooking
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make them choose, this will let them make your decision
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