answer:”The book suggests that in order to find a mate Black woman should couple up outside the race. If she does, will that make her a ”sellout?” If she doesn’t do it, even to a detriment to herself, does that makes her more loyal? Many Black men couple outside the race. Other than Black women mostly, it is barely mentioned.” People were talking about this stuff in high school. People can date whoever they want to date, and any person not crossing over is a condition. If you are attracted to someone, but don’t want to pursue it because if some social stigma….That’s conditioning.