answer:I don’t know who this “we” is, but I certainly don’t find you using the men’s room acceptable. On the contrary, seeing as guys in the restroom are, shall we say, hanging out in the open, and women are safely hidden from view behind stall doors, I would say that a woman using the men’s room is significantly LESS acceptable than a man using the woman’s room. (Not that I would do that either. Cripes, hold your damn bladder.)