Do compliments from certain people mean more to you than if they come from certain other people?

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The compliment is worth more if the person paying it has the qualities they are complimenting you on. A compliment about your looks is better if it comes from someone attractive. A compliment on your intelligence is better if it comes from someone smart, etc.

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