So, eHarmony matched me with a guy I work with - what do I do?

So, eHarmony matched me with a guy I work with - what do I do?
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You’re both on eHarmony to meet people so yeah, send him a message. If it were me then I wouldn’t bring up knowing who he is yet, that might be kind of fun to see if he notes the details if they’re in your profile, it might be an icebreaker for him as far as conversation. Sounds like an adventure to me :)
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