What do you do if the guy will not make the first move?

What do you do if the guy will not make the first move?
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He’s nervous. You should probably go first. Maybe he’s just a really shy guy and no matter how much you nudge him he won’t take the plunge. I used to be like that. I say, just dive in because, from your description, he obviously likes you.
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