answer:I have a friend who is wary around all black men because of an uncomfortable incident she had on a bus when she was in high school. When she told me this, I was speechless. Basically, she was riding home from school on the bus and she had a skirt on. The guy put his hand on her thigh and squeezed her thigh the whole ride until she got off the bus. Yeah, that was scary as all hell and I would’ve been terrified too, but it just doesn’t make any sense to me that she would be afraid of all black men because of this. I really wanted to ask her why she wasn’t afraid of men now, or riding on buses by herself, or wearing a skirt, but I didn’t want to get into it.