Are you looking forward to the Holidays or do they make you depressed?

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I love the holidays! I can see how they can be depressing for people who have lost a loved one around that time or that they just miss having them around at this time. It can be very depressing for people who feel alone or don’t have family close to them to spend the holidays with.

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