answer:For an elementary school, it sounds like they don’t have any diplomacy. But it is hard for us to evaluate what your sister has told you because you aren’t able to tell us how the school communicates. This is a second hand observation. On the one had the way you describe it all, they are being heavy handed. But it also sounds like they have identified problems that your nephew is having and are trying their best to remediate the issue. Why is you sister fighting the extra help for her son? The google plus thing sounds odd, but then again the schools set up certain ways for the school to communicate to students and parents. Where is this all happening?