answer:Heart and personality is far more important than looks, especially for us middle aged peeps. I want brains, wit, humor, good morals, values, honesty, integrity and at this stage of the game, morbid obesity aside I’d happily “settle” for a really awesome human being pretty much regardless of package. 50 lbs. overweight, no problem, balding, no problem, a disability of some sort, no problem, smoke a few cigarettes, no problem. Alcoholic dumb fuck control freak…problem! lol