answer:Rare birds are lucky to flock up with other rare birds. I think what you are, most likely, referring to, is a particular personality trait/ brain stack traits. Read up on Meyers/Briggs and Enneagram personality theory. Intuitive perceiving types are very much prone to making a lot of random connections that escape most other personality types. If you are lucky enough to be friends with these rare birds that think the way you do, and assimilate sensory input in the same manner, are able to intuitively make the connections you are making, count yourself lucky. I am a 54 yr. old, female ENTP, extroverted,intuitive, thinking, perceiving brain functions. Only 3% of the population have this particular personality type, and out of that only 1% are females. I have only had 2 friends in my entire life that were able to relate to me on a level I found satisfying and gratifying. I am used to always having to dumb myself down, for lack of a better term, with most others. Few can rise to my level of wit, intuition, humor, intellect. It is hard to find your tribe when you are a Scarlet Macaw flying with a majority of Pigeons. lol