answer:I think people may be bad for us for whatever reason – they’re opportunists, they’re addicts, they’re users, whatever, a variety of reasons. If you can realize that and keep a distance, it will help you in the long run. As far as your statement about trying to figure out how they “behave, lie, cheat, deceive and judge endlessly and still think they’re better than most” you can try to figure them out until the cows come home and still be wrong. Let it go, don’t try to analyze them, and move on. LIfe is too short to try to figure people out. If they’re bad for you, for whatever reason, realizing that is enough for you to cut the ties and move on.