Is it mean to go on holiday with your husband 5 weeks after giving birth, leaving the baby with Grandma?

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answer:As long as the baby is safe and well cared for, I don’t see the problem. It is entirely your choice whether to take a trip or not. Don’t let anyone shame you for your choices.

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