Why does our cat bite my boyfriend but not me?

Why does our cat bite my boyfriend but not me?
by

1 Answer

Answer :

I’m guessing you hit it on the head. Your cat does it because he wants to (Who knows what goes on inside a cat’s head)? But it continues because it’s allowed, meaning of course that he doesn’t get squirted with a spray bottle when he bites your boyfriend.
by

Related questions

Why does my cat bite my hands for no reason?

Description : Why does my cat bite my hands for no reason?

Last Answer : No, he wants attention, pets. He is being creative in his own way and a little nip is his way of communicating he wants some attention. Both my cats do this.

Has anyone treated their cat for a rattlesnake bite?

Description : Has anyone treated their cat for a rattlesnake bite?

Last Answer : answer:I had a dog that was snake bit. We did not administer the antivenom because as you say it often does more harm than good. We monitored her, and as she didn't get any worse we waited to ... vet in a week to check kidney function and to check and clean the wound site if it is getting necrotic.

I don't want to live with my long term boyfriend - but only because of his dog. How do I tactfully approach this situation?

Description : I don't want to live with my long term boyfriend - but only because of his dog. How do I tactfully approach this situation?

Last Answer : I don't think you're an asshole for that, as I agree. Also a cat person who loves animals in general and many dogs, I am not willing to put up with badly behaved dogs. I am not willing/able to ... wants you to move in (and even if not, really), he should get the dog well-trained by a professional.

Care to share us your animal bite story?

Description : Care to share us your animal bite story?

Last Answer : answer:Dog attack husky, about 8 years old… I don’t wanna talk about it. *Fu*ker almost choked me to death.

Is there any simple solutions to make our cat less staticky?

Description : Is there any simple solutions to make our cat less staticky?

Last Answer : Add humidity to your air and/or a little bit of moisture to your cat.

How can I keep our cat from moving the water dish?

Description : How can I keep our cat from moving the water dish?

Last Answer : That cat probably male is territorial or threatened? Give it own food/water dish/bowl.

Rick and I just realized that in the 3 years we have had our cat, Vanta, we have never heard her purr. Is that very odd?

Description : Rick and I just realized that in the 3 years we have had our cat, Vanta, we have never heard her purr. Is that very odd?

Last Answer : Those both seem odd to me. I wouldn’t have a clue why. A vet could tell you better. My mom once had a kitty with a very quiet meow. I can’t remember why it was tho.

May I ask for good wishes and paw prayers for our cat, Rishy?

Description : May I ask for good wishes and paw prayers for our cat, Rishy?

Last Answer : Good luck Rishy. Here’s hopes you feel better and a prayer for you and your family. Best Wishes @tedibear

How do I get my cat to quit disrupting our sleep?

Description : How do I get my cat to quit disrupting our sleep?

Last Answer : My aunts cats frequently have her up at 3 and 4AM. She has not been able to change this, and I have no idea how you can. Just thought I would let you know that you are not alone.

How to dissuade a neighbour's cat from loitering on our property?

Description : How to dissuade a neighbour's cat from loitering on our property?

Last Answer : I've given you a Great Question because it was well written. Welcome to Fluther. That said, mayhaps a bit of foul-smelling substance? Bug spray, bleach, etc. - spray some on the reducers/door jambs. ... deter her from coming back, I expect. Please do not send poor little Ciara to her death. :(

Why is our cat peeing everywhere?

Description : Why is our cat peeing everywhere?

Last Answer : Lurve for the last topic. I would be sure he does not have a bladder infection as that can cause otherwise housebroken animals to urinate in odd places.

Why would our cats prefer the junky cat food over the high quality one?

Description : Why would our cats prefer the junky cat food over the high quality one?

Last Answer : Cats are one the fussiest little animals ever domesticated. There is no telling what any one of them will like – they offer differ greatly in individual tastes. We have one that turns its nose up at fresh fish, prawns etc., and tries to steal the dog’s food.

What should we do with our grieving cat when we go out of town?

Description : What should we do with our grieving cat when we go out of town?

Last Answer : I would definitely leave him home flying animals especially a cat is very stressful and should be avoided.

How do we get our older cat to accept a new kitten in the house?

Description : How do we get our older cat to accept a new kitten in the house?

Last Answer : My vet told me to keep the kitten in a room with a closed door for a week to let the other cat be curious, but not threatened. (They said the older cat might kill the kitten.) We kept the ... staying. This allowed the older cat to establish who will be the dominant, or Boss cat, in the household.

What could be wrong with our cat if he has irritated, lumpy skin under his arm?

Description : What could be wrong with our cat if he has irritated, lumpy skin under his arm?

Last Answer : skin irritations are often caused by an allergy to an ingredient/s in the cat's food. Try a high quality cat food with a minimal amount of grains; corn and soy are common irritators for cats. ... the life of my cat that has heart problems; traditional vets are stunned that she is still alive.

Remember me, the cat owner/idiot? (I know I promised, but....)

Description : Remember me, the cat owner/idiot? (I know I promised, but....)

Last Answer : Get Band-Aids.

I adopted a cat, but now dad doesn't want her?

Description : I adopted a cat, but now dad doesn't want her?

Last Answer : Just throwing it out there, but maybe you can get two cats to keep each other company. That was traditional thinking when I was growing up.

Sorry if this is not a delicate question...but why does my cat smell like sour milk?

Description : Sorry if this is not a delicate question...but why does my cat smell like sour milk?

Last Answer : Many cats are lactose-intolerant, so yes, even a small amount could have an effect. If he smells like sour milk, though, I would think maybe he got some on himself. If he’s acting fine I wouldn’t worry.

My cat has tapeworms but has never had fleas!

Description : My cat has tapeworms but has never had fleas!

Last Answer : answer:Tapeworms can be acquired other than by fleas. ALso if it was a flea it only takes one. They are not dangerous to you. It is possible but highly unlikely for you to get them from ... may continue to be expelled for several days. Once the danger has passed clean and disinfect the little box.

My cat just caught a bird, but the bird is still alive. Is there anything I can do to save it?

Description : My cat just caught a bird, but the bird is still alive. Is there anything I can do to save it?

Last Answer : Most probably not I’m afraid. The most humane thing to do now is put it out of it’s misery before it dies of blood loss or shock. If you can’t do it yourself ask a neighbour.

How long should I wait to get another kitten? Does it dishonor my cat that just died if I get one so soon? I miss her terribly, and know I will never replace her, but I miss the companionship.

Description : How long should I wait to get another kitten? Does it dishonor my cat that just died if I get one so soon? I miss her terribly, and know I will never replace her, but I miss the companionship.

Last Answer : Grieve first. Now’s not the time to get another. Not yet.

Alright, my friend's cat (just became a cat in August, but is not 1 yet) has a TERRIBLE biting problem. Any help?

Description : Alright, my friend's cat (just became a cat in August, but is not 1 yet) has a TERRIBLE biting problem. Any help?

Last Answer : He just became a cat in August? What was he before? and how could he have become one in August if he isn’t one yet? By the way, cat’s have a mind of their own.

What can I do to get rid of this cat that my parents love but is unhealthy for them?

Description : What can I do to get rid of this cat that my parents love but is unhealthy for them?

Last Answer : Well, you could stop assuming that your parents are invalids who can’t think for themselves, and you could stop neglecting the emotional well-being and health that their attraction to their cat provides them….

What is the best cat litter for a very good cat who tracks the stuff all around the house but doesn't want to.

Description : What is the best cat litter for a very good cat who tracks the stuff all around the house but doesn't want to.

Last Answer : We use Feline Pine. The look of it actually reminds me of Hampster food – too big to get stuck in kitty paws. There are benefits other than your kitty not tracking the litter around your house, too. It’s much safer for said kitty and generally smells a lot better. :) http://www.naturesearth.com/

I just got a big 1yr persian cat yesterday and it lays around all day. i havent seen it eat or drink water yet! i know it has to adjust to the family but why is it acting like that?

Description : I just got a big 1yr persian cat yesterday and it lays around all day. i havent seen it eat or drink water yet! i know it has to adjust to the family but why is it acting like that?

Last Answer : Give her some time to get used to her new surroundings. When my ex and I brought home our Tortie from the Humane Society, she went into hiding for a few days (hid under the bed) and finally came out when she felt safe. Then, she began to explore. Just give your girl time. She’ll be okay.

My cat got a bird, I thought it had died, but looking this morning, it is still alive. How can I care for it?

Description : My cat got a bird, I thought it had died, but looking this morning, it is still alive. How can I care for it?

Last Answer : Crisis averted. I called the RSPCA to ask how I could care for it and they gave me a number so I could take it to my vet and they would pay for the treatment. Mr Birdy will hopefully be in tip top soon enough.

I got a black cat. Will you help me name him?

Description : I got a black cat. Will you help me name him?

Last Answer : Ebony

Me my Girlfriend and her Cat?

Description : Me my Girlfriend and her Cat?

Last Answer : Get the cat to the vet ASAP. Vomiting blood is not normal. Assuming the litterbox is clean (clean it daily) and the cat has used the litterbox in the past and it has stopped using it we get back to the ... would make my GF choose between me and her cat. I'm pretty sure the cat would win. Good luck.

Can you help me deal with (most likely) putting my cat to sleep?

Description : Can you help me deal with (most likely) putting my cat to sleep?

Last Answer : answer:I am so sorry to hear about this, it is very difficult to go through. I have adopted a number of older (some sickly) animals and have had to make this decision fairly often. It is never ... this decision, @deni , I wish you and Barnabas peace with the decsion you make, however you make it.

My cat over the years has developed a worsening habit of depositing small amounts of poop whenever he sits down somewhere, can someone help me?

Description : My cat over the years has developed a worsening habit of depositing small amounts of poop whenever he sits down somewhere, can someone help me?

Last Answer : Oh but when I look at his ass its perfectly clean. I do not get it.

Can someone help me find the gif online that has an unusual breed of cat that comes up to a young girl sitting and gets her attention by tapping her right arm a few times?

Description : Can someone help me find the gif online that has an unusual breed of cat that comes up to a young girl sitting and gets her attention by tapping her right arm a few times?

Last Answer : The cat could be a Scottish Fold. Sorry, that’s all I got.

How can I adopt a cat considering my schedule keeps me out 9 hours per day?

Description : How can I adopt a cat considering my schedule keeps me out 9 hours per day?

Last Answer : It’s not a silly question. I worked eight hours a day and my cat was just fine when I got home. Now that I’m retired, I’m home a lot and he pretty much ignores me and sleeps most of the day. Go ahead and get the cat. You’ll be glad you did.

Tell me about your ragdoll cat and how it's different from non-ragdolls.

Description : Tell me about your ragdoll cat and how it's different from non-ragdolls.

Last Answer : answer:My RagDoll Myles is a big lovey, as per their reputation, but he is still ALL cat. Yes he is mellow but he is also a very shrewd hunter and as big as he is ( 17lbs.) he actually ... low maintenance coats. My short haired siamese sheds waaaay more than he does. I love my monster man! :-)

How can I discourage my cat from bringing me LIVE gifts?

Description : How can I discourage my cat from bringing me LIVE gifts?

Last Answer : No. That is their nature. Any attempt to force a critter to behave contrary to their nature will have a bad outcome. That includes humans, but that is another discussion.

I have a little cat that has taken a liking to me, details inside?

Description : I have a little cat that has taken a liking to me, details inside?

Last Answer : When a cat adopts a human, it's extremely hard to say no, particularly so if you have a soft and caring side open to life's little rejects. As to traveling across borders with a pet, I'm ... certianly with you in not turning her over to near certain euthanasia. Good luck and Godspeed in your move.

Cat owners, can you help me?

Description : Cat owners, can you help me?

Last Answer : It's possible that one is sick, and the acting out is stressing the other cat out. It could be behavioral, especially if you have stray cats (whether you know it, or not) hanging around outside of ... cats in heat hanging out around your house, it's even more likely that your cats will be stressed.

How do I know how my cat will react to me getting another cat?

Description : How do I know how my cat will react to me getting another cat?

Last Answer : It usually doesn’t turn out so well. I’ve tried getting some kittens/cats from different litters to come together, but it always resulted in hostile behaviour. Cats are jealous by nature.

Can anyone help me find out what's wrong with my Cat?

Description : Can anyone help me find out what's wrong with my Cat?

Last Answer : The first thing that went through my mind was a grass seed or some other foreign object in her nose causing her to sneeze. If she seems sick (or miserable as you indicated) though, I would not think my ... on their answering machine or you could look for a 24-hour/7 day vet. I hope she is okay.

Fluther cat whisperers can you help me extinguish this behavior?

Description : Fluther cat whisperers can you help me extinguish this behavior?

Last Answer : Bring her to someone’s room when you go to sleep… Eliminate the whole “Looking” aspect of it and if she knows where you are, she wont have to mew for you…

Can anyone tell me more about the PU surgery my cat had last night?

Description : Can anyone tell me more about the PU surgery my cat had last night?

Last Answer : answer:He absolutely must wear his e-collar! If he won't eat with it on, you can take it off while you are supervising him, but if left unattended, he will chew out his sutures ... thorough discharge instructions form your vet and make sure to ask questions about anything that you don't understand.

How do I teach my cat to let me pet her?

Description : How do I teach my cat to let me pet her?

Last Answer : answer:Ply her with treats. First start off by giving her a treat when she comes up to you. Then follow up by giving treats each time she lets you pet her for 10 seconds. Move it up to 30 ... time, she climbed the windows trying to get out of the house. She now follows me everywhere like a puppy.

Why does my cat enjoy licking me?

Description : Why does my cat enjoy licking me?

Last Answer : I could lick you myself, with one hand tied behind my back.

My cat has been sick and it's costing me a fortune. Is it imperative that I bring her to the ER vet, instead of waiting until tomorrow (see details)

Description : My cat has been sick and it's costing me a fortune. Is it imperative that I bring her to the ER vet, instead of waiting until tomorrow (see details)

Last Answer : I say bring her in. Better safe than sorry, and you’d hate yourself if something went wrong and she didn’t make it through the night.

How do I keep my cat from disturbing me during phone meetings?

Description : How do I keep my cat from disturbing me during phone meetings?

Last Answer : Can you put her outside?

My cat growls and hides from me?

Description : My cat growls and hides from me?

Last Answer : Let him get used to life at your house. You have no idea what he had been through before he ended up at the shelter. He’ll need a while to trust and love you.

How can I stop my cat from bringing me frogs?

Description : How can I stop my cat from bringing me frogs?

Last Answer : Not really. You can start to keep your cat indoors except when directly supervised by you, or you could try to figure out where the cat is getting the frogs and make it impossible for him to get to ... you. You really can't stop a cat from hunting. If there is nothing else he will hunt dustballs.

After grooming your cat has it ever immediately gone to strut in front of other family members as if to say: "Look at me, am I not all pretty now"?

Description : After grooming your cat has it ever immediately gone to strut in front of other family members as if to say: "Look at me, am I not all pretty now"?

Last Answer : Yep, had one tha did such a ting…. It also tried to bring me food while i was ill, even hough it had 5 kittens to feed…. Cats ARE smart, and vain, annimals..

Are there some kind cat wranglers here to help me?

Description : Are there some kind cat wranglers here to help me?

Last Answer : You had me at “wranglers.” Of course. I’ll bet johnpowell would help too.

Can a pet cat be trained to walk on a leash?

Description : Can a pet cat be trained to walk on a leash?

Last Answer : Yes

What should I do about my sick cat?

Description : What should I do about my sick cat?

Last Answer : You might want to do some research in your area. I recently had to have my dog euthanized & a neighbor helped me find a vet that would come to my house to handle her final moments. My dog was at ... popular all over the country due to people's busy work schedule. So you might want to look into it.