Why do some dads act like their daughters are their sweethearts?

Why do some dads act like their daughters are their sweethearts?
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I can understand your discomfort. I guess it depends on how this parent’s generation were raised, it was a different time back then. It can also be a factor of the daughter’s own behavior and personality, some girls are tomboys so they require a more normal treatment.
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