Doing favors (i.e. giving them) – I do all tthe time. Like you said @kneesox – without any need for return. Just because I’m a nice guy. I feel very uneasy getting favors from others. First, because I try to be as independent as possible, but second because I feel unworthy or undeserving. Why should they help me? Back 4–5 years ago I had a terrible infection in my leg – needed a walker, need a cane, was in a bad way for about 3 months. Even though that was the one time in my life that I really did need help from people just to do normal things, and people were very willing to do things for me, it always made me feel a little stange accepting their help. Maybe that’s my personality.