Is it a bad sign if in a dream you are in the beginning stages of making love to a fictitious charachter, when in both the dream and in reality you know you have another person you love, but the only reason the act isn't committed is because the woman in your dream decides she can't cheat on her loved one?

Is it a bad sign if in a dream you are in the beginning stages of making love to a fictitious charachter, when in both the dream and in reality you know you have another person you love, but the only reason the act isn't committed is because the woman in your dream decides she can't cheat on her loved one?
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answer:Dreams can be a way of understanding what is going on on a subconscious level. But frankly, I prefer basing my important life decisions on events that occurred while I was wide awake. Plus, dreams can represent all sorts of symbolism. The other woman could actually imply some other job that you want but you feel wrong about leaving your current one because your boss is like the nicest person alive etc etc. That’s just one of the countless examples of what your dream could actually mean. My advice: don’t think of the dream as representing your relationship with your girlfriend. Try to forget about it if possible. Also, if you think you have a good relationship going, try to keep it strong instead of wavering for mere thoughts made during REM sleep. So to answer the direct questions asked: no it’s not a bad sign, no the dream doesn’t mean anything significant and yes you are over analyzing it. PS – Welcome to Ask-public :)
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