Recent questions tagged jealousy

Description : Jealousy + Hatred towards a new student?

Last Answer : Tell your friend (s)he's wrong. Your friend dislikes the new student out of jealousy and insecurity. Being nice and welcoming to the new student will make him/her feel better. He needs to fake it until he ... was the new kid? Wouldn't he want people to be welcoming? He needs to work on his empathy.

Description : How do I get over my jealously of my girlfriend talking or seeing her family?

Last Answer : I think your girlfriend should have stepped in years ago and told her family that they need to accept you and treat you well as she was going to be with you no matter what they thought. But I ... counseling and try to resolve all of these issues. After 6 years, her family should have accepted you.

Description : Why are people jealous of success of others?

Last Answer : According to a sales motivational speaker I once heard, not many people want the likes of you to aspire or gain more success than themselves, so they talk smack to keep you down where they are. Ignore them and move forward and upward!

Description : How do "you" deal with a passive/aggressive person?

Last Answer : I avoid them… in fact I tend to avoid everyone in real life, except my mom.

Description : Has a jealous ex-boyfriend made life hell for you with your new partner?

Last Answer : answer:No. A man like that could go quite far. You might need a restraining order. He could get violent. I don't know what legal standing you think he might have, but if you feel in danger from him, ... The man is obsessed. He has mental problems. But you can't tell him that. Still, he needs help.

Description : Do you automatically assume someone is jealous of you if he or she does not like you? If so, why?

Last Answer : I never thought that. I know that’s what some parents tell their children so they don’t feel bad, but I was never told that. As a child I just assumed that some people were just mean.

Description : Do you tend to admire people with similar or different characteristics to yourself?

Last Answer : I admire all kinds of people—some who are similar and some who are different.

Description : Have you ever struggled to align your feelings on a topic with your beliefs/values on the same topic?

Last Answer : answer:Yes. In general, I'm not a believer in most people with addiction issues overcoming them. This was a huge obstacle in a relationship of mine I discovered addiction and substances abuse ... trying to get away. I totally sucked at bringing the two things into something emotionally workable.

Description : People who have a problem with someone who is happy are clearly ____?

Last Answer : “not”

Description : Why are the rich called "filthy"?

Last Answer : I think it was originally coined to describe those who became rich by foul means, gangster types & such like. A slang phrase which became more widespread I guess.

Description : How can I stop being jealous about other women's feet?

Last Answer : This really isn’t about his foot fetish. It’s about the fact that he hid erotic stories from other girls from you. It’s a breech of trust. The object(s) of his desire is secondary.

Description : Does it take a lot of "activities" by your s/o to make you jealous?

Last Answer : My So does not do those things. If he did, he would not be my SO. I have no tolerance for that kind of flirt.

Description : Why do people always want what they cant have?

Last Answer : Because some people never learn that the grass is always greener on the other side, at least until you get there.

Description : If your significant other made a comment like, "She/he looks hot" while the two of you are in a public setting just relaxing & people watching, how would it affect you?

Last Answer : answer:Actually, when Chad Ochocinco made his appearance with an open-to-the-waist jacket on Dancing with the Stars the other night, I was audibly drooling. (He has amazing abs.) And I tried to point out a ... lot the other morning, but he missed them. Al though he did crank his head to try and see.

Description : If a relative that you can't tolerate, shows up at a family function, how do you handle it?

Last Answer : I would have as little to do with them as possible.

Description : Do you get jealous,when someone who ISNT better than you gets praised?

Last Answer : Sometimes. I really don’t any more. I have finally developed the skill to give credit where credit is due. In learning that I have also learned to get it when it is due too.

Description : How can I stop myself from being too jealous in a relationship?

Last Answer : I've read the self-help books, I've had the advice of friends. I could tell you to go into another room, take a walk to cool down, I could say hold it inside and use a fake smile, tell ... to ask those close to you for advice. They know ya better, and usually know what will work best for you.

Description : Why is it that most women have such harsh feelings toward strippers ?

Last Answer : I don't know if women have harsh feelings towards strippers in general, but I'm not surprised that the women in your anecdotes were critical of them. Your friends' girlfriends and your ... appear more attractive to potential mates. Your aunt was also probably hoping for sympathy from her listeners.

Description : Does anybody have that friend who gets jealous of other friends?

Last Answer : Yes! And my wife and I were just talking about her. She can be so sweet but she’s pushed away so many of her friends because of her immature jealosy games. She is in her sixties but is emotionally about eight years old.

Description : Is jealousy ever warranted?

Last Answer : No, I think it’s a tremendous waste of time.

Description : How can one get over jealousy?

Last Answer : or maybe just...calm down.

Description : am I suppose to be jealous?

Last Answer : sounds like empty boasting to me. If it is so important for him to tell you how much better he is treating her than he did you then there isnt much for you to be jealous of. He sounds like a vindictive prick. Something you can’t hide with money…unless the new girl isnt all that bright.

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