Has a jealous ex-boyfriend made life hell for you with your new partner?

Has a jealous ex-boyfriend made life hell for you with your new partner?
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answer:No. A man like that could go quite far. You might need a restraining order. He could get violent. I don’t know what legal standing you think he might have, but if you feel in danger from him, inform the police and ask about how to get a restraining order. Of course you shouldn’t feel bad about moving on. The man is obsessed. He has mental problems. But you can’t tell him that. Still, he needs help.
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