answer:Yes. In general, I’m not a believer in most people with addiction issues overcoming them. This was a huge obstacle in a relationship of mine I discovered addiction and substances abuse in the person who’d been courting me and who I thought was so wonderful and full of promise. As much as I felt the PC thing to do was to give them the benefit of a doubt and to be supportive of them wanting/trying to clean up, much of the time I was angry, suspicious and trying to get away. I totally sucked at bringing the two things into something emotionally workable.