Recent questions tagged sexuality

Description : Victoria's Secret has posted a campaign featuring a model with Down syndrome. Is this inclusivity something to be celebrated? Exploitative? Something else?

Last Answer : Victoria’s Secret screaming “Look how woke we are!”

Description : 21 and still a virgin. Is it a shame?

Last Answer : Not at all. Some people prefer to wait until they are married. There is nothing wrong with that.

Description : How to tell if someone's a lesbian?

Last Answer : Welcome to ask-public. I’m male and I so wanted to respond if she won’t do me she must be a lesbian. ~ But there isn’t anyway to tell without getting to know her better. She just could be into her job.

Description : Would you consider this rape?

Last Answer : There's always how I wish I would have reacted in a theoretical situation and the uncertainty of how I actually would have reacted. I would have liked to say to the group, Don't you consider that ... in the context of that setting and perhaps when we were less aware, I might not have said anything.

Description : How did "transgendered" come to be included in LGBT? [Details]?

Last Answer : answer:Funny you should ask. This issue has become a hot item at the traditional women's colleges in the US. Here is the NYT article about transgender issues at Wellesly College (my alma mater) of ... http://www.nytimes.com/2014/10/19/magazine/when-women-become-men-at-wellesley-college.html?_r=0

Description : Did you ever question your sexuality?

Last Answer : From the time I was a little girl my father would point out what beautiful women looked like to me. In movies, or the Sports Illustrated Swimsuit edition, for example. So for as long as ... do not want a relationship with a woman. I consider myself straight despite the occasional sexual attraction.

Description : Am I just confused or was I just growing up?

Last Answer : answer:Sigh Human sexuality is a fluid continuum. And teen-dom is a seething cauldron of hormones.

Description : Am I bisexual?

Last Answer : answer:I don’t think we define the sexuality of others. I think we do that for ourselves. And welcome to Fluther.

Description : How is a french kiss properly performed?

Last Answer : With love, passion and hunger.

Description : Why is it so difficult to believe that bisexuality exists?

Last Answer : answer:Sounds too good to be true? For the record, I have no doubt that it exists.

Description : Is it possible that bisexuality is treated more as a "choice" than homosexuality or heterosexuality (Please read details)

Last Answer : answer:I don't know how the LGBTQ community feels about it. But I was always under the impression that a bi-sexual wasn't any different than a gay or straight person. I don't find it impossible ... gays and straights, but I tend to think what society thinks as a whole isn't very credible, usually.

Description : Where on earth did the idea come from that Asians are sexual exotics?

Last Answer : Not real sure, but I believe it was from sailors returning to the states from tours of duty in the PI and other western Pacific stations.

Description : For heterosexuals only: What process did you undertake, if any, in order to identify and accept your sexual orientation?

Last Answer : I believe few people are 100% homosexual or straight. That said then I just asked myself if I had to choose, how could I live in good conscience and with no regret or supression.

Description : On a scale of 0 to 10 how would you rate your sexuality?

Last Answer : It depends on what level. psychologically (sexuality included) 10 of 10 on how male i am. if we are talking physically, well i am 6ft 6in and strong, but i have no hair on my chest, i dont quite ... almost have tits, so im no stereotypical alpha male. so probably really more of an 8 of 10 or so.

Description : Is it abnormal to find teens liking the same gender at the ages between 13-16?

Last Answer : I honestly went through a phase like that. I was teased about not having a boyfriend at that age and I really did question if I was gay or not. I finally figured out that I like boys. It’s a very normal thing to go through. I never mentioned it to anyone because I was embarrassed. :/

Description : Why are people so against gays, and gay marriages?

Last Answer : answer: I can't tell if I'm either Gay or Bi. But I do consider myself straight. What does that even mean? XD Anyway, I really have no idea why people are so obsessed with this issue. Maybe they ... pisses me off, so I'm not usually surprised when it ends up being a douche in new and creative ways.

Description : What causes sexual dysphoria, nature or nurture?

Last Answer : I think they were born that way.I do not consider it a mental illness. Something in the genes. BUT I am not a expert.

Description : Why oh why must nudity always be associated with sexuality?

Last Answer : Because we are used to being in an unnatural state. Naturalness feels utterly foreign to most people. Thus the human body has become fetishized.

Description : Can a person have a fetish for a particular race?

Last Answer : answer:I had a thing for Zira. All jokes aside. I don’t see race. Just texture.

Description : Ladies, What do you think about foot fetishes?

Last Answer : An excuse to buy more shoes.

Description : Studies about G-spot helpful or harmful?

Last Answer : Meh. Neither. Find a loving, giving partner who will try to find ways to make you feel good. Who the hell cares about what a researcher says will or won’t feel a certain way in your body?

Description : Attitudes about sexuality in USA?

Last Answer : Well, I think younger people are more open-minded because the world is constantly changing to a more tolerant culture about the whole topic. I think the general population though still think sexuality is a taboo topic and don’t want to talk about it.

Description : What do you think about bisexuals?

Last Answer : I love them (girls).

Description : Do you think the Pope is right?

Last Answer : To make things open up front,i agree with his eminence. This is a subject that i feel strongly about and find homosexuality unacceptable.

Description : Why do girls give blowjobs?

Last Answer : Are you trying to be ignorant or is that an accidental byproduct of your youth?

Description : Are all humans born bisexual?

Last Answer : I think some people are born bisexual, bisexuals mostly. I also think some people are born homosexual and others are born hetrosexual.

Description : Have the lines between straight and gay been kind of blurred over the past few years?

Last Answer : Maybe we just always assumed the line was more distinct than it ever actually was.

Description : What is the thought behind the common notion that to be bisexual means that you are a slut?

Last Answer : I didnt know this was a common notion.

Description : Is it normal to be 16 and have a 3 and 1/2 inch penis when not erect?

Last Answer : it’s not terrible. TV purports everyone has a 12” dick, which isn’t the case. especially if you’re just 16 – don’t sweat it.

Description : To those on ask-public who are neither heterosexual nor homosexual, do you tell someone you want to date that you are bi/pan/omnisexual before you get serious, as you're getting serious or after?

Last Answer : Uh…....if you are neither heterosexual nor homosexual, whats left?

Description : Does penis size really matters to women?

Last Answer : Size doesn’t matter as long as you know what to do with it. If you’re on an extreme (ie incredibly small or extremely large), it can have an effect, but most women won’t dock you for being average if you use it well.

Description : Are we all born a sexual?

Last Answer : answer:Research is still ongoing. I suspect that there are genetic and developmental aspects to sexuality—it’s neither purely nature nor purely nurture, but a combination of both.