How to tell if someone's a lesbian?

How to tell if someone's a lesbian?
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Welcome to ask-public. I’m male and I so wanted to respond if she won’t do me she must be a lesbian. ~ But there isn’t anyway to tell without getting to know her better. She just could be into her job.
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