Why are people so against gays, and gay marriages?

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answer:“I can’t tell if I’m either Gay or Bi. But I do consider myself straight.” What does that even mean? XD Anyway, I really have no idea why people are so obsessed with this issue. Maybe they just need something to fear and hate. Beyond that assessment, I haven’t a clue. Society in general pisses me off, so I’m not usually surprised when it ends up being a douche in new and creative ways.

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