I find myself wanting to say something like look in the mirror—but I don’t know your circumstances and maybe you have to work. It might be breaking your heart to have to leave your baby. Maybe you are champing at the bit to get back to work. But if there is a way you can manage to take care of your infant, you will probably never regret that time. If you are looking for a good infant care place, make sure you spend at least four hours there watching them deal with the infants they are caring for, to make sure they will really love and adore you infant the way infants need to be loved and adored.