Parents: Would you really be proud of your child receiving a B+ in school?

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What’s going on with you? That interests me more. Parents are proud of their children unconditionally, not dependent on a score on a test. I seldom got less than a A or a high distinction at any time during primary/high school and tertiary education, but my sister who seldom got above a B use to generate just as much pride from my parents. They knew that she had to work for it, whereas I never studied – I just had a good memory.

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