Were you ever forced to move back in with your parents or in-laws?

Were you ever forced to move back in with your parents or in-laws?
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several times I’m actually staying at my sister’s this time round. I’ve got my own place a few blocks away, but it’s not safe. And I help her out with her kids, so it’s fun for everyone. Oh and I get along with her husband a lot better than I do with my own parents.
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