Trying to be maintain a friendship with an ex boyfriend's friend/ best friend's roommate?

Trying to be maintain a friendship with an ex boyfriend's friend/ best friend's roommate?
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ok. maybe it’s because of the time right now, but i am confused. this person is….your Ex’s Friend? Orrrr your best friend’s roommate? Or both? Or is your ex your best friend?
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