answer:Its very apparent that he is still in love with you and i think you know this. this is a tough call, because your ex appears to be a nice person and you do not want to hurt his feelings anymore than necessary. i ran into this many times in law enforcement. discussions usually end with a domestic violence situation. if you cannot verbally resolve your ex’s debates, then its time to move to another source of assistance for you…..Restraining Order. sorry to have to tell you this, but most cases like this, result in one or both calling the police and making a report. then, they seek a Restraining Order to cease any and all communications with each other. the law is now very strict on violations of a Restraining Order. its one day of jailtime for each violation. I sincerely hope your situation does not come down to this. if this is your only recourse, you can expect harrassment, of some type, from your ex. it sometimes takes a day in jail for some people to get the message. i wish you good luck. john