Does it really take a village to raise a child?

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It is very helpful for children to have other adults to rely on outside of their own immediate family. It can be relatives (aunts and uncles, grandparents) or close friends. Also, it makes it immeasurably easier for parents if there are people they can also rely on to take the children once in a while, to fill in, or to talk to about problems.

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