Everyone has some frogginess, haven’t they? I mean, who perfectly fits your every fantasy of what would be perfect in a companion? My ideas of what “attractive” is have changed a great deal over the years. When I was younger, it was very important to me that the women I dated were conventionally attractive to men. I seemed to need the sense of validation that came with walking into a room with a beautiful woman. But that was my problem, brought about by my insecurities. Now I am attracted by accomplishment. One grows to love the appearance of the people one loves. My companion is perfect for me – I see us spending the rest of our lives together in a loving, sharing, supportive relationship, and having lots of fun as we get older together. I don’t think anyone would mistake her for Angelina Jolie, and I couldn’t care less.