Is " love at first sight " a foolish concept?

Is " love at first sight " a foolish concept?
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Wishful thinking. The term “love at first sight” isn’t necessarily a foolish concept. I personally just do not believe it is possible to fall in love with someone just by looking at them. Intense desire or infatuation? Sure. Love – something that takes a while to cultivate? Nope.
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