Do you know some exercises to love unconditionally yourself and the others more?

Do you know some exercises to love unconditionally yourself and the others more?
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I think it is a bad idea to unconditionally love yourself. To grow and improve as a person, you must be self-critical. Otherwise you delude yourself into thinking that you are better than you are.
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