What is your experience with The Total Transformation Program?

What is your experience with The Total Transformation Program?
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Some parent reviews say it’s very complicated, difficult to use, not very effective, and basically, more of a retirement plan for James Lehman than a way to build a better relationship with your child or adolescent, and resolve any behavioral problems. I guess there is also the “Honest Parenting” program. I’m sorry you have to analyze these programs for your 5 yo . I’m sure others here will have more personal experience with each of these programs. If necessary be careful about the 30 day deadline issues on any programs like this, so you don’t get ‘legally’ bound to owe more money than what you planned. Read all fine print carefully. Regards to you…
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