How is it that as strangers, we (flutherites) can be so loving to each other?

How is it that as strangers, we (flutherites) can be so loving to each other?
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I think the fact that we don’t know each other makes it easier for us to talk to one another about these things and that is what brings us together. Sometimes, being completely honest with people we know in real life can make things awkward but that doesn’t happen here amongst strangers.
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