Does it help you when someone else has been through something similar?

Does it help you when someone else has been through something similar?
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Only if they have a better solution than I do. Otherwise, I never believed misery loves company. Another miserable person just doubles the misery in my book. I’d rather be miserable alone if they have on better solution.
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