When you fluther folks were teens, did you guys often fall in love?

When you fluther folks were teens, did you guys often fall in love?
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You need to distinguish between infatuation and love. I have had a thousand infatuations, 5 or 6 serious relationships, two marriages, and have been in love once.
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