Description : Do you believe that happiness comes from within and that you can't love someone else without loving yourself first?
Last Answer : Happiness is accomplished by action and outcome. It is not a gift. I have never understood the notion of “Loving Yourself”. It sounds sort of narcissistic to me. But self respect and self confidence are definite first cousins of happiness.
Description : Can you want someone to love you without really loving them?
Last Answer : I think it’s entirely possible. That’s all I have to say on it for now, your motives can be whatever you want them to be, but I think wanting love without loving is entirely possible.
Description : What is the difference between loving someone and being in love?
Last Answer : Check out the Greek ideas of Eros and Agape. Easy to Google. I’m going to bed.
Description : Is it possible to intentionally stop loving someone?
Last Answer : I’m sure if you try hard enough you can convince yourself that you don’t love them, probably by telling yourself that’s it’s better for them or thinking of it in ways that they will be better off, if that helps.
Description : When you are in a relationship what is the deciding factor that takes it from just liking someone to loving them?
Last Answer : acceptance & comfort.
Description : Is there a key to loving someone instantly? A reason?
Last Answer : Maybe you(r behaviorisms) remind them of their mothers?
Description : Why when you love someone you can't have a dream about them?
Last Answer : You cannot force dreams. If so, no one would want to ever wake up.
Description : If someone falls in love with you emotionally, and you want them really bad physically, how do you handle the situation?
Last Answer : Imadethisupwithnoforethought Can you elaborate on the situation?
Description : The first time you and your partner talked about the fact that the being in love feeling is over; how did you experience that conversation?
Last Answer : 3yrs and going, guess we’re not there yet. I’ll be sad if that’s a subject we ever feel has to be brought up.
Description : True or False: No conversation from a person I have never seen or met would make me fall in love with them?
Last Answer : answer:Isn’t that the basis on which most people fall in love? What they say to each other? What they say physically as well as orally? Is there something I’m not getting here? Do you mean one conversation of limited duration? Do you mean a conversation online, but not in person? I don’t get it.
Description : Is it really possible to be loving, friendly, always positive and full of positive energy, warm and comforting -- without being phony or fake or plastic?
Last Answer : answer:Not everyone is going to share one's values, because one's ideas of peace and love may be different than another, or is achieved through differing means. Which is, partly, why different cultures and ... and sorrow, as there is even for the people who appear to be a constant pool of radiance.
Description : What would the world look like if everyone were loving for just one day?
Last Answer : I would be pleased to be alive for that one day.
Description : Is it possible to fall in love with someone on the web and does it ever work out?
Last Answer : answer:Yes to the first part (though I believe you can only know if it is real when you meet in person). As to the latter, I'm afraid I can't answer that. It will depend on many factors. ... live on the other side of the world from eachother - with immigration rules that's a hard one to overcome.
Description : Have you ever been in love with someone you know you can't have?
Last Answer : when i was younger i thought i had, but when i heard that he was only talking to me because he wanted me to have a threesome with him and his girlfriend that i didnt know about, it turned my stomach. so it wasnt love, just puppy love…
Description : Do you hold your love in or do you tell everyone how you really feel about them?
Last Answer : Depends on who the person is. With my husband I tell him I love him and I do with the kids. But I don’t tell my brother I love him. I just laught and call him an idiot and he does the same with me. We both know that is our way of saying we love you, you idiot. :P
Description : Do men actually feel "love" for women or do they just desire them?
Last Answer : I think men love just as much as women do. We all show it in different ways.
Description : Is there a chance you’ll fall in love with an android?
Last Answer : People fall in love with all sorts of objects, critters, and animated characters. Why would an android be any different?
Description : Can you please remind me as to how it is again to fall or be in love?
Last Answer : I can tell you that I'm more in love with my SO than ever. How can I tell? For one, my eyes well up when I look at him and think about getting married soon very soon ;). I think love ... Don't give up on finding someone you truly connect with, who enriches your life and makes you want to be better.
Description : If you were in your SO's shoes, would you fall in love with yourself?
Last Answer : answer:Yes. I’m kinda hot, clever, emotionally unavailable, good with children, and I have a ton of vices I am not apologetic for. It is kinda unfair to women now that I think about it.
Description : Do you think boys fall in love quicker than girls?
Last Answer : I think that it depends on the person, not gender.
Description : Do Women fall in Love with Women but don't follow it due to Social pressures?
Last Answer : Yes.
Description : Can you be blind and fall in love?
Last Answer : Sight doesn’t play any role in anything a blind person does. Why would it forbid them from falling in love?
Description : When you fluther folks were teens, did you guys often fall in love?
Last Answer : You need to distinguish between infatuation and love. I have had a thousand infatuations, 5 or 6 serious relationships, two marriages, and have been in love once.
Description : Do you fall in love easily?
Last Answer : I fall in lust easily. Same thing.
Description : Can a gay man fall in love with a woman?
Last Answer : What do you mean by love? And why not?
Description : Why do people fall out of love?
Last Answer : Because people don’t work on it. You have to continually strengthen it. Also it requires people to be self-less. And that’s hard for a lot of people.
Description : How do u make a guy fall in love with you because you are really in love with him? What attracts him the most?
Last Answer : See sibling from you..http://www.ask-public.com/disc/10376/how-do-you-show-someone-you-love-in-love-them-how/
Description : How do you fall out of love?
Last Answer : answer:that would be really hard seeing as shes always there.. just try to forget .. go out with other girls.. if that doesn't help try separating your self from her.. since you see her all the time thats ... still have these feelings.. i mean you just cant help it. did you ever go out with her?????
Description : I'm in love with my bestfriend, I'm often distracted while studying because I always want to talk to him, though we don't talk a lot of hours. Now my exams are arriving, shall I stop talking to him or not?
Last Answer : Wait til after exams to do anything. Cool it with the talking and thinking about him for now, study and pass your exams and then come back to it. Welcome to Fluther! Come back when exams are over and ask us again.
Description : Why can't I find love?
Last Answer : Don’t look for it and it will find you.
Description : Why is it that I love what i can't have?
Last Answer : answer:Because you don't really want it. The big mistake that men make is that when they turn thirteen or fourteen, and all of a sudden they've reached puberty, they believe that they like women. Actually, ... 't mean that you like women any more at twenty-one than you did at ten. - Jules Feiffer
Description : "You can't love another until you love yourself." I think this cliche is bunk. What do you think?
Last Answer : People who don’t love themselves have trouble with relationships and then go to Fluther.com to tell everyone about it. I think that saying has truth. You can’t be in a healthy relationship without good self esteem.
Description : Can you answer this quote: When you can't be with the one you love, will you stay with the one that loves you?
Last Answer : Nah. Just ain’t the same. ‘sides, I don’t like leading people on like that. If you love me and I don’t love you, why make it worse for ya?
Description : Im still in love with my ex-girlfriend,I know I should try to get over her but can't what should I do?
Last Answer : stop worrying about it. You will get over her it just takes time and there’s little you can do to speed things up. One day you’ll just realise its happened. In the mean time hang out with your mates, meet some new people and have a bit of fun.
Description : Is it true love or fake to love someone up to the point of blank then you no longer love them, but despise them?
Last Answer : A woman scorn. ... is frightening. Very painful.
Description : How well would you fare if you had to let the love of your life go in a If you love someone set them free situation?
Last Answer : I was in that situation and, whilst I let him go, it broke my heart to do so. In fact it very nearly finished me off completely. I don’t know how I survived it but I do know that I probably couldn’t survive it again. The good news is he came back!
Description : What are some Powerful, Easy, Fun and Cheap ways to show someone you love them?
Last Answer : Pack a picnic lunch and rent a bicycle built for two and go for a nice long bike ride together. ;)
Description : Can you hate someone and love them at the same time?
Last Answer : Only if you marry them.
Description : How do you show someone you love (in love) them? How can you prove it?
Last Answer : To show someone you love them you just have to consistently treat them in a loving manner. Proof, however, is really only something that cones with time.
Description : Are love stories like the Titanic a bad influence?
Last Answer : Life is a bad influence.
Description : What does it feel like to be in love?
Last Answer : answer:My head is in a spin My feet don't touch the ground Because you're near to me My head goes round & round My knees are shaking baby My heart it beats like a drum It feels like It feels ... shake My heart beats like a drum It feels like It feels like i'm in love Something along those lines.
Description : Do you feel love?
Last Answer : That sounds more like infatuation. Love is not a feeling. It’s an outwardly expressed selfless commitment.
Description : Are you are in love right now? How does it feel? Is it like other times or more powerful this time?
Last Answer : It feels really weird. Noone could possibly understand it. It’s embarassing. I better keep it to myself.
Description : At this point in your life, are you able to say to a love what/who it is you feel you are?
Last Answer : Yes, it feels nice to be able to do so. :)
Last Answer : The feelings that come when you fall in true love are: 1) The feeling of being able to do many things When you fall in true love, a kind of triumphant feeling is born. As if it is ... extra but nothing lies. When you fall in love, expecting extra from the person in your mind comes automatically.
Description : Ever fall for someone head over heels, and then find out they "play for the other team" (Seinfeld reference)?
Last Answer : No never, but that seems like it would seriously suck.
Description : My grandpa has alzheimer's and its very bad. I wish he would die. Is it okay to feel that way?
Last Answer : There is nothing wrong with any of your feelings. I watched my dad die of Alzheimer’s and it is an ugly, horrid, fearful disease that robs you of your loved one before physical death intervenes. Your love is evident. Allow yourself to have your feelings. They seem appropriate to me.
Description : In 500 Days of Summer, were either of them in love?
Last Answer : answer:I think neither of them were really in love, and that's the point of the movie. Sam was infatuated with Summer, and in love with the idea of who she was, but he didn't really know her. ... couple falls in love at the end. Those are stories about how we want things to go, not real life.
Description : Do women ever love men as much as men love them?
Last Answer : Silliness. Of course they do.
Description : Does having a favorite child mean you love them more?
Last Answer : I think it might mean you like them more.